Debby Downer

No body enjoys a Debbie downer. You know someone who is unbelievable negative in any and every situation. If you find that you are a Debbie downer then honestly things need to change like now. Yes there are going to be times in your life where things get rough and the odds aren’t in your favor. Everyone has some kind of hardship that they have to deal with. But that is no excuse for you to be negative all the time. A positive mind creates positive results. It’s the key to happiness and happiness is self produced. You create your own happiness not anyone else. It is up to you to make more positive moments than negative moments in your life. How do you expect to achieve anything positive in life with a negative attitude. So I challenge all of you Debbie downers out there … LETS GET POSITIVE ! And you’ll be amazed at the results you receive.

I Hate Mornings

You know that moment when you take all the necessary precautions to be productive for the next day but yet all efforts fail. Oh you don’t well let me give you a little example. So last night I set my alarm for 7 a.m. with all the high hopes in the world that I would have an early start the next morning. And guess what happens … Yup ding ding ding I OVER SLEPT! With all the preparation the night before I still managed to hit the snooze button. Whose idea was it anyway to put a snooze button on an alarm clock anyway? I mean it’s like the alarm clock companies are out to get me or something I swear. Then when I finally get my lazy butt out of bed and get ready guess what I hear? Yup I hear the freaking shuttle hauling ass down the hill. Like I’m not already 15 minutes late. Ugh I guess that’s life.

Football Chick

You know what really grinds my gears when I’m watching football and my girl friends ask me questions during the game! Stupid questions too… ugh! The one I hate the most is …

“why do you yell at the TV they can’t hear you!”

0_o what do mean they can’t hear me…… yes they can I’m the assistant coach. I have to let them know that they just screwed up that play. That’s my team too gotdammit if they lose I lose!!!! Leave it to the sports-less chick to get me all flustered lmao. I guess not everyone is a football chick … *shrugs* THAT’S LIFE !

The Typical Professor

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Don’t you love it when you are a full time student, working part time, and involved in extracurricular activities on campus and yet you have one lovely professor that feels that their class is the only thing you have going for you? Then you try to be responsible enough to let the professor know your situation and you get one of these….

” …well I put myself through school with no help from my parents…. had kids while in school doing five internships while being on dean’s list…”

-__- Guess what I hear a lot of ” I’s ” in that sentence and I could’ve sworn we were talking about ME! ME is having a hard time with all of these back to back assignments that take days to do. ME has a life out side of this course, so ME can careless about what you did… IM not YOU. When a student goes to a professor explaining our current situation we don’t want to hear that you went through worst. We want to hear that you understand that things come up and shit happens, HELLO!  If you haven’t noticed an understanding professor get better results from their students. Its hard to work with someone who is a sarcastic hard ass, give people a break once in awhile. Basically professors get it together its nothing wrong with being HUMAN!! COME ON THAT’S LIFE!!

THE CHEAP FRIEND!

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Listen up people! Let me tell you this … NO ONE  likes a cheap friend! I mean come on I know we all have that one friend whose always complaining about money. You know, they have a job but some how they are always tapped out, or in better terms BROKE.  And have you noticed that  they are the first ones out of the bunch that wants to do something extravagant. Yup I know how you feel. So my rule is … if your my friend, especially if you’re my best friend stinginess is unacceptable. SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT PEOPLE : FRIENDS DO NOT COUNT FAVORS! If I’m hungry and I have no money at the moment it should just be friends instinct to spot me the money so I won’t starve to death. I mean hello I am the only one baffled at the new definition of best friend here? And what makes it worst is that you still always have that one friend that will spend their last dime on you just because you’re their friend; they don’t have any source of income and a shit load of bills and yet is willing give with no problem. So what makes one friend from the other? STINGINESS . I mean goodness  gracious SHARING IS CARING you ever heard of that or am I the only one that went to elementary school.  If this is you GET IT TOGETHER, nobody wants a nagging penny pitching friend. THAT’S LIFE … its just selfish!

Women Wednesdays : SITUATIONSHIPS

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Ladies let’s talk for a minute. Now we all know that as women we are built to want to care for someone, to have someone that we can say we love. We give a million and one chances to all the wrong people because we feel that our love and tenderness will be that push that men need to “change”. We believe that we are the antidote and with a little time and effort that we can make this boy into the “perfect man”, but guess what, days turn into weeks and weeks to into months. At this point  you expect to see some kind of improvement and you do. You start doing all the things couples do; going out to eat, having movie nights, cuddling and texting all the time. He’s doing everything you want him to do except what, COMMITTING. How many of you been thru this raise you hand … yeah I know so have I. He just needs a little more time right? Wrong! Those months turn into years and you are now in the same exact spot you were years ago. So what do you call your arrangement? You call it a SITUATIONSHIP. Those who don’t know what a  situationship is, it’s when you aren’t not just friends but you’re not in a relationship either, you’re that unsatisfied medium. Now lets be real no woman wants to be in a situationship, having sex and giving your all to receive only half of what you are looking for, but we tolerate it because we have that false hope that soon things will be different, things HAVE TO change because you already dedicate so much time and effort to this man. WELL HERE’S THE COLD HARD TRUTH! We as women have to learn to know when to let go, give a man the chance to realize what they have. You can’t force any man to be with you they have want that on their own. Sometimes people have to lose the thing they are so use to having to realize that that’s something that they not just want but need in their lives. Never settle for a situationship! We all deserve better! THAT’S LIFE “/.